Find a Deeper Connection
Transform and deepen your intimacy with God.
Welcome to Purple Habit!
Purple Habit is a website to connect you with Alice Nahas, spiritual director, supervisor and retreat leader. To provide information about the process, the benefits and possibilities of benefits from exploring God’s presence in one’s life.
The opportunity to tend to the soul’s health, to heal from past and present heart wounds, to transform and deepen our intimacy with God.
What is Spiritual Direction?
Spiritual direction is “help given by one Christian to another which enables that person to pay attention to God’s personal communication to him or her, to respond to this personally communicating God, to grow in intimacy with this God, and to live out the consequences of the relationship.”
(William A. Barry and William J. Connolly, The Practice of Spiritual Direction)
The gift of walking with another, companioning, as the one walks with God. It is listening to, enhancing, helping to focus on the presence of God in one’s life, daily.
God is the director; I am a channel, a safe place in which to open and explore the relationship between God and directee.
5 Elements of Spiritual Direction
Purpose
Assist people to recognize and respond to God
- Who is God?
- Who am I?
- Who is God and how am I to God?
Stance
Contemplative, hospitable
- It is a gift, needs to be asked for
- Need to make choices that develop that stance
- What did I notice today – feelings, persons, things
Effect
Truth emerges that gives life, that provides direction
- CORE: Direction is helping people to taste the goodness of God
Focus
Experience of God
- A real life experience of a personal and intimate relationship with God
- A discovery of the eternal, daily, minute by minute relationship generally revealed in prayer
- Nurturing, savoring and reliving God’s presence
Approach
Effective awareness/presence
- Listening and dialogue
Services
Individual Spiritual Direction
Spiritual direction is offered at the frequency and need of the directee (one who is in direction) as scheduling and time allows for sessions.
Supervision
Supervision or mentoring is a vital part of growth for a spiritual director. Directors frequently are ‘stirred or moved’ by something a directee shares.
Groups and Retreats
Sometimes we all feel the need and desire to step away from the hustle of the world and just be. At times a group retreat, over a weekend, will be just what is needed to clear the mind and rest the heart and body.
Hello! I’m Alice.
Spiritual Director and Trainer
I’m a woman who loves God and from that love am called to minister to others in the practice of spiritual direction. I was born in Paris, AR, grew up in a small community in Iowa, influenced by the Presbyterian faith, Southern Baptist and Church of Christ, with periods of not attending any church sprinkled throughout and converted to Catholicism in 1991. For me it felt like coming home.
I am certified as a spiritual director through a five-year program with the Sisters of Red Plains, OK and St. Scholastica monastery, Fort Smith, AR, three-year Theology program at St. John’s in Little Rock, AR. Sometimes I marvel at my journey – how on earth did I get here!
I have two grown children, five grands and seven great-grands. I keep house with two cats who have such separation anxiety that belies the ‘independent nature of cats’ to the extreme; even as I type this, one is in my lap.
I have done some scuba diving, sky diving and hang gliding but my favorite is hiking in the woods. I love chocolate and good coffee, sunrises and sunsets, reading books (book-aholic is the correct term) and watching the animals in my backyard feed, fight and take baths.
I’m pretty normal.
Why Purple?
So glad you asked! I have always loved the color purple, even as a young girl. Talked my mom and dad into painting my bedroom walls purple. Over the years I wore purple often, painted my bedroom purple when I could, purchased purple items and delighted in all of it.
In 2006 when I began this portion of my spiritual journey, meeting with my spiritual director, participating in Retreat In Daily Life (RIDL) and making the trip to Little Rock each month for 10 months out of the year for three years I became aware of something deeper. As I studied Theology, RIDL and the training program my conversations with God were a lot about what I thought was ‘wasted time, sinful time’ in my life. God was very gentle with me as we explored those times and issues. I have been graced to understand that yes, I am a sinner, but I am beloved of God, forgiven and in the words of Msg. Scott Friend, “God’s favorite”.
I began to understand that God probably had a much different plan for me; I’m pretty sure he intended a religious life of some sort. And I reasoned, if I had been more attentive, I might be in a community now, and if I were, I’m pretty sure it would have been one with purple habits. So, I began wearing purple every day. Every day. It of course was noticed by friends and co-workers who might stop me and comment – “do you wear purple every day?” and I could say ‘yes’. Invariably the reply came, “well, it is a royal color”. My response, “Indeed, it is, and I am priest, prophet and king and more so, it is penitential. As I put on my ‘habit’, I am reminded that I am a beloved sinner, forgiven by God, I am His favorite”. I do from time to time get some strange looks, but it is true. I am His favorite, His beloved. And so are you.
I get to witness to people through the simple wearing of purple. I habitually wear purple. It is my habit. I am blessed beyond measure.
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